"Many men remain in that embittered and entitled mode ad infinitum, thus the 'crabby old man' stereotype"!
I read this and thought how this makes such good sense! I would bet this is we're my H is headed in his future!
I'm married to one of the Grumpy Old Men! Granted he's not always a sour puss, but still more than I would want to deal w! I can't imagine H in 5yrs smiling at the world!
Look Nero, I'm making lemon aid out my life! I'm good though, really having a good grip on what I'm really loosing if I leave H vs if I wait it out!
How are you?
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!