Urworthy as always you are so right. The being around each other and being friends and having fun begins to build those expectations back up again. Then when things don't go like I thought they would I get a little deflated. My emotions are so much more in check than they use to be though. I remember months ago times like this I would just shut down for a few days and wouldn't want to do anything. Now it's like the conversations happen and I just keep pushing forward. The limbo is what gets me the most now. I guess that is where the patience comes in. I do need to let her go and work on herself. She is so lost and emotional is unbelievable at times. I just know for me I have got to create that distance to continue improve myself. Thanks for all the advice.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it