Due to having leave the house when BD, I left without alot of stuff, including toothpaste. So yesterday, I mentioned to h that I needed to go out to get some or to take some from the house. I began my stmt with "when you asked me to leave, I left with just my overnight bag"... he got offended and said "whoa, you aren't telling people that I asked you to leave, because you left because you couldn't handle it, all the fighting"... At this point I was shocked and left it alone. This is not true! When I came back, I said "not trying to start anything but I never left, you asked me to leave, I would NEVER have left"... we calmly debated this for a bit until he stated that he can't recall and alot during that time and its fuzzy for him.
WOW! How can he forget??? He asked me to leave!!! and we were NOT fighting at the time either... we were spending lots of time watching really good movies, take-out meals, etc. I would like to remind him of this too... I forgot.
He mentioned again yesterday, that he still has intentions of renovating his area of the house... which is totally stupid, unless he plans on living with his mom forever! HE is the one who insists he wants to move out of there! Why renovate? Hard wood floors, fire place... for who? no one goes there!! And any future woman would judge him "living with mommy"...right?
UGHHHH!
Going to read PON's thread...letting go!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
