Quote: If you had read M/V as you said, you would know to use I FEEL statements. Talking and justifying are all cheeseless tunnels. Please reread the area about this.
I try not to go down cheeseless tunnels and did try to get across to him my FEELINGS. I did stress this is how any situation made me FEEL. It is hard to get him to understand these things sometimes because he says that I am way to sensitive. Sometimes that makes me laugh - he can be the most sensitive person on the face of the earth when the shoe is on his foot!
What kind of herbs are you talking about specifically? I might be able to talk him into something like that - maybe maybe not.
I think he is fully aware that sometimes I just want to lay close by him. I am aware that he is out like a light almost as soon as his head hits the pillow so I guess he sees that as a delay to getting to La La Land.
As far as our date night - we mostly go out to eat at our favorite restaurant in a neighboring town and then go to Starbucks that is about a 20 minute drive from our home. We spend that time talking. We do go to movies about once a month but that doesn't change our date night.
I am glad your XW unblocked her e-mail. Perhaps it will lead to more open communication for both of you.
