So anyway, here is what has been going on since the last time I posted.
I am still in MC by myself for the time being and I was wondering something. In an earlier post from one of the members said that MC does not work for the WAS. They said that it may even accelerate the her leaving.
Is this true?
I have a MC appointment next week and she said that she will go too. My question is, if it is true that it will have a negative impact on my DBing and accelerate her wanting to leave...
Should I cancel the MC appointment?
My MC has expressed interest in her coming to MC. He understands and is an advocate of DBing and has the book on his shelf. I am confused. My MC is through our church and they are strong advocates of keeping marriages together.
Could some of the other veterans give me their opinion on this subject?
Also, I have set a boundary with her that may be too general. Basically I told her that I refuse to agree to do anything that will serve to push us further apart. The only thing that has transpired from that is this. About three weeks ago she asked if I would sleep on the couch. I told her no thank you. I told her that if she didnt feel comfortable sleeping in our bed that she could sleep on the couch. I told her that I was sorry that she felt this way.
Am I supposed to have any boundaries as the LBS? If so, what are some boundaries that are appropriate?
Other than that, everything is still status quo. I am the source of the problem. Everything is my fault. And anything I do is the wrong thing it seems. I understand that this is straight out of the WAS script.
