Honestly G, I think most of these emails are guys just fishing. They don't want to invest more than a few seconds in any one woman...and will probably fail miserably at finding someone. Then they get pissed off when women don't reply saying "they're all stuck up" etc. Either that or they are guys just looking to make humiliating comments to women...and sadly enough, there appears to be lots of them out there. The guys to look at, as you know, are the guys who sit down and read your profile. They'll take the time to think about who you are and comment on those things. I never messaged a lot of women but the ones I did, I always did what I mentioned above...and threw in a witty line or two, naturally! Almost every woman writes that she likes to laugh and wants a man with a sense of humour. For the Filipina's I'd throw in a word or two in Tagalog...they get back to you! There's a book I like about online dating called "I Can't Believe I'm Buying This Book", check it out. Good stuff. I find the psychology of online dating fascinating.