Quote: I said, "Did it ever occur to you that I don't like to play that game? It make me feel less than wonderful so I find NO pleasure in your game."He said that we are both very different people and that we react differently to things. I said that I was well aware of that but that his actions brought unpleasant feelings to me.
If you had read M/V as you said, you would know to use I FEEL statements. Talking and justifying are all cheeseless tunnels. Please reread the area about this.
Quote: He said out of the blue that even though the Rx that he took this week, Cialis, kinda upset his stomach that he was going to take it again, that he had enjoyed our LM last week very much and it was kinda like jalapano peppers!... He said that he just wanted to throw that information in. We were not discussing that at all! He said it had been very pleasureable to him. (Yea for me!)That did give me some glimmer of hope. I think possibly in some ways he has got out the "habit" of ML and that last weekend reminded him of the passion we used to share.I told him last night that I loved him very much and that I loved to feel his entire body next to mine whether we were making love or not.
2 things here, did you check out herbs instead of the medicine. And he has to clearly know that laying beside you does not mean he wants sex. I also did not realize the agony my XW was going through by my rejecting her.
DATES: One note on dates, dates should be face and talk time, movies don’t count, neither bowling, etc.. We all make this mistake, in that we do a date with spouse and realized we never talked the whole time.
I have a good thing happen to me, XW unblocked my email to her, I was being an ass last sept, and she blocked it.
