Great, you saw the part about getting buff and like everyone else in the world, you're "working on it". You better draft that letter right now then so your W can start "working on it" too. I like to "eliminate excuses" to help people see the facts and quit placing blame. Write the letter, be the considerate, caring H that you can be, and get buff. She will no longer have any excuses and you will have done truly all that you can. Until then, it is simply her will against yours and isn't that a great way to live, not.
