Thanks Urworthy! I am definitely willing to follow through with this. I have to. When we go through these stages of getting along so well it gives me hope and makes me wonder why we don't just work on things. I can't allow that to happen if she continues to talk to OM. It's for my sanity. It's what I need to keep working on me. I have no doubt based in today that she is definitely confused on what she wants. She even said she is mad at me for changing now. Lol She is also confused as to whether she wants a family or not. She really is lost and needs to work on herself. Here is the thing. If she wants to work of herself without being involved with OM then I am ok being "friends" like we have been the last few weeks. If she wants to continue OM though I can't do that. I just can't for me.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it