Haven't posted for awhile.just to recap ,my husband left almost 2years ago,still comes over a lot but just as a " friend" ,gives me a hug and kiss when he leaves. He was having a scheduled surgery and I asked him if he needed a ride. He said no that his daughter ( love child) was giving him a ride. His surgery was yesterday . I texted him in the morning to wish him well. His daughter texted me after his surgery to say all went well. Didn't hear anything today so texted him this evening to ask how he was doing .he texted back to say he's good just resting. Do I just wait now to see if he let's me know how he is doing or leave him alone? Not sure if he's mad that I didn't check on him sooner or if he just doesn't want to hear from me. I feel I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.
