KML, what I want is important to me. I realize that I won't always get what I want, but I value myself and my needs and I don't let others tell me what I should be happy with. What a court may order is different. I may not like it but I will have to accept it.
I completely disagree with you. The court absolutely takes the parties wants and needs into consideration. They are not always granted, but they are considered.
And, nothing I want does interfere with H's life. He will still have the life he chose.
