Thanks JP. I know I need to just step away and let it go. She did end up texting me askin me to come over and talk to her about this. There was a whole lot of talking but the gist of it was that she really doesn't know what she wants and that her feelings haven't changed since last time we discussed things. She said that she would give me an answer by next Friday whether she wants to work on things or not. I told her I did not ask for that nor do I expect it. She said she feels like she needs to for herself. I just said I don't expect that. I said if you want to give me an answer on something then just let me know by next Friday if you are still talking to OM. If so that's fine, I just need some space for myself if that's the case. She understood. Like I said a lot was said. But that was the main point.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it