Did you think the explanation made your beach summer idea more understandable? I would be surprised if you found any mom or dad here who thinks a summer on the beach would be remotely conceivable in the situation you were in. That you think it was, and that you think your context would help people understand, is really beyond comprehension.
I think that disconnect between things you say and things a parent would be expected to feel might be part of your W's reluctance to increase your involvement. I've seen a lot of people trying to help you develop real, not strategic, empathy and parenting instincts. I really hope you are able to make some headway there.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
