Thank you for the kind words Linda. I too have learned a lot from Tsquared and Snodderly.
Originally Posted By: uRworthy
FY, glad you had a nice weekend. I have to ask you, your little sister is your wife's BF? So, does she know about you and your wife? Just curious.
It doesn't seem she does, at least not the full extent of it all. If she did I don't think she could be so cool around me.
Lil Sis and I get along great, and on several occasions her and I have spent time together w/o W. (once when W was on one of her solo trips) Our sitch never came up, although we have talked a bit about hers. I do know W was coaching LS regarding her sitch, and was advising her to move out/not go back to her H. She even helped her move.
When LS moved back home about a month ago, W was disappointed, and said Sis only did it because of money issues. W and her still get along great and do stuff together. When I had a chance to ask LS on her own, she sounded much more positive about their M. Same when I talked to BIL.
Even when they lived apart, (for about a full year) they had near daily contact, and still did things together. Seemed weird to me.
W says LS and H are still fighting, which I'm sure is true. Fighting was/is their issue. W and I seldom fought pre or post her Mom's death.
Besides LS, W has one GF from childhood she reconnected with, and then several coworkers she does things with. This weekend her and I will be going to a HS graduation party for the oldest son of one of these coworkers.
I plan to get really drunk and tell everyone about our sitch.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
I plan to get really drunk and tell everyone about our sitch
LOL
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
