So W just text me to remind me she is going out of town tomorrow.
I should have step back and just said ok. But goes to show you I am not completely detached yet and that I need to put up boundaries, because all of this hanging out starts me thinking that "why wouldn't we try to make this work as good as we are getting along"
Here was the text exchange:
W: just wanted to remind you to pick up son tomorrow because I am headed out of town
Me: atlanta?

W: yes

Me: I'm not going to do this any longer. I just cannot allow myself to be in a relationship, where my partner chooses to engage herself physically and/or emotionally with another man. Out of respect for me please from this point on only discuss things with me concerning Cullen
Thanks


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it