lostforever, if you read my sitch you will see that my W moved in with a friend (only friends for 4 months before BD) who is more than likely gay. Yes, my W may have changed and become gay, who knows. More than likely though, she has found someone who is not pressuring her, friendly, very happy and is probably supporting her with regards to the separation (not necessarily to my benefit). So really all my W has done is found someone who is helping her GAL. Anway, that is how I am looking at it until I ever find out differently. Note: My W didn't tell friends or family (apart from her Mum) who she moved in with. The W doesn't talk to friends as much as she did before BD. Everything she does is with the friend. W doesn't go on Facebook anywhere like she used to. My W also didn't take much of our belongings: her clothes, personal stuff, 1 set of sheets/blankets/pillows, photo albums (wedding and kids) and school stuff. She left all the kitchen stuff, blankets, sheets, linen and didn't take one piece of furniture or electrical. So I can only presume she is happy to use everything that the friend owns and has.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
