Thanks Left Coast,

I know i should see a glimmer of hope when she mentions the chance but i also dont want her to use me as a crutch to fall back on either.

I guess thats part of GAL. I also know that if i truly change deep down, that she will also have to change because we are both at fault in this.

I know i cannot change her, but if she also isnt willing to change then we are never going to make any progress.

Stay well and hang in there yourself!


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13