Hi TSquared. I wanted to thank you for your advice to me about the big, primary psychological needs of men in general, to help my H who has been feeling less than manly lately. You gave me a very useful glimpse into the male psyche, and I do thank you.

I just finished reading all of your threads, and feel so badly for you. You have become so strong and so good at this DBing, and have been standing for so long, and things seemed so hopeful. I was just telling Snodderly how much I look up to you; you are truly the H whose W would be crazy to leave.

But don't give up hope T^, even if you do feel as if you need to take some steps towards initiating a D, it can be called off as easily as it can be started. I am hopeful that this will be a wake up call for your W. Best of luck to you, and again, thanks for your help.


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17