Quote: I want him to do it for him also! I know that sometimes he is interested in only him and that is fine occasionally. In the past we would spend hours making love.
Past is the past, it isn’t coming back.
He never was a quickie type guy on a regular basis. He sometimes wants a quickie now and like I said occasionally is ok but if it is the only sex I am going to have for 2 or 3 weeks I am not interested in a quickie - I want the whole enchilada.
I WANT, interesting.
Quote: . Daylight sex is hard to come by when you have 2 teenagers and one grown son in the house - we have a fairly large home but our bedroom is on the same side of the house as their rooms.
That was a problem with us, sort of, on sat she would get up early to go shopping or so other thing that was more important than staying in bed. So that left Sunday, now if all the planets line up, and I was feeling okay, we would ML and have a really nice day. So I understand what you mean. That is why dates and overnights are real important.
What exactly is sore anchors? Hate to be dumb but that one threw me. “sore anchors” Do I need to get technical, let’s see, they use to call it blue balls.
I think it could be the testosterone levels. I am going to see if he will have it checked. He always had a high sex drive up until about 4 years ago and it gradually has diminished.
Sounds about right, natures way of making sure, only the 25yr old get more action. Ie better sperm.
We are a LONG way from an empty nest. Our youngest just turned 13 so it will be at least 5 years before she would go off to college and we don't really want her to go too far away!
You misunderstood, as they age, they will be there less and less, and you and H are staring at each other with nothing to do.
Quote: always want more sex!! LOL...he has actually become pretty sensitive these days. He has truly come a long way and I am very glad for that. I do hope that I can get him to understand that I want that special closeness with him that I get from ML with him - to become one with him.
Now you sound like a HD guy, you see the sensitivity comes from lack of testosterone, and that is why I am saying sex or sensitivity . If he gets more test, then he will be less sensitive.
Quote: In some ways I feel I am the one who will have to change and accept that this is just the way it is and get over it. It is just been hard to accept gracefully when sex is still at the top of my list of life's greatest pleasures!
Neicie, you may be unconsciously pressuring him, have you work on using the LOVE BANK CONCEPT.
