Now 2+ yrs time to get off this limbo

[Strongerthanthis]

Good point Mr Bond everything must be kept in context. I was also of 'if there was an affair then kick them to the kerb' school.WhenI found out about the affair in my situation...anger, disbelief and a 180 in what I had always thought I would do, I went all ' melty man ' trying to pleases her, to win her back.

I'm back here after a long time as a good friend is just going through it all now and it's hard seeing him make the same mistakes I made.

So Newman keep filtering everyone's advice as your doing, there is no magic bullet just patience and it sounds such a cliche but detach and keep moving forward with your life. This is extremely hard having spent half your life with someone so keep posting and vent' and asking questions.