I heard back from one of the attorneys and the conversation wasn't very encouraging. She doesn't know that her approach would be much different and what I want is contingent upon H being fair. If the court intervenes I could walk away with even less, however I may be awarded attorneys fees.
I just feel hopeless. I also feel like what I was told in the beginning wasn't reasonable in terms of what I would likely receive. So, I've been fixated on that belief rather than the reality and have not been guided toward accepting what a good settlement is.