Thank you for your support. and replies. I know I need to GAL and have done so to a point but then somehow i put the car in reverse and now im stuck. ..

I think this move may be good it is just moving to my dads is not the good part... there is no way to tell anyone here how it is at my dads. you would just have to be there and hve lived there to see what i mean. but it is temp and I will not be there long I can not. But going to save lost of money if i still have a job after IBM does there cuts.