Best thing I know to tell you is to GAL and work on you.

Somehow you have to let go of your W and work on you.

I know it is hard, trust me.

If you keep focused on your W you will remain stuck and hurting and the chances for R will be less.

I understand it is hard and feels wrong, yet it is what needs to happen for you to be OK and have any chance of a new future with your W.

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy