things went south

[BC39]

Thanks Bond for staying with my thread, sincerely.

"If she were still serious about reconciling, have you brought up counseling to her? Retrouvaille would be a good start and DB counseling."

We did MC for a few months leading up to W "awakening" in October. Once this was described to MC she figured we'd come far enough and didn't need her anymore. W agreed.

I have no idea at this point if she wants to continue to try, although the convo the other night gave me the impression she didn't. This is why I've asked her to stay at friends and I'm staying dim. I'm hoping to give her some time with her thoughts to hopefully conclude she'll continue to try.

If she does want to still try I am going to firmly suggest we go back to MC as well as a Sex Therapist.