Hi GM -

To be honest, I wasn't really involved in my friend's D and I don't know the entire situation. I don't know what conversations happened between her and her attorney(s) so maybe there is more to the story, but it sure seems like her attorney(s) were in cahoots with her X's attorneys. She is in a really bad spot right now, but I kind of think she should have been a lot more pro-active than she was. But I don't know the whole story. Her X is a real creep. I never liked him and I would have stopped the wedding if I would have known what could have happened.

Do you see a counselor? Maybe you need something for anxiety? I did. And it helped immensely. In fact when I haven't taken my meds in a while I can feel myself spinning into that web of depression. Lord only knows why...LOL!

You are still in mourning for what you have lost. So am I. I get so angry and there is not much I can do about the situation. I don't know which is worse. Your H ignoring the kids or mine smothering the kids on HIS TIME ONLY and keeping them away from me as much as possible? My H is punishing me with the kids because he knows at this point that is the only thing I care about anymore.

Don't worry. Did you get references for attorneys? I spoke to four before I chose mine and he came with high regards from two fellow co-workers. And I trust him. I know God led me to him.

So try to calm down and hang in there. Talk talk talk and get it out. Don't stuff the emotions. Let them come out otherwise they will come out at the worst opportune moment.

(((GM)))

WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"