A plan of action...vet advice needed

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Sandi2, I was a WAW and I could have written that (if I were as articulate as everyone on here is!), it is so true.

I was dead inside, someone gave me attention and I had an A. I was actually pi**ed when my H wanted to work things out because I thought "Seriously, I tried for years and you had no interest and now that I am finally happy again you want to work it out?" I didn't want to give up the happiness I had found and every thing he did repulsed me. I couldn't stand when he touched me, sex was something I suffered through and everything he did to be nice seemed fake. Even the things that seemed genuine made me think "Why now? Why didn't you do this when I asked you to? TOO LATE BUDDY"

Be careful how you deal with your WAW, by trying to show her what you know now you should have been doing all along, you may drive her away permanently.