Thanks for stopping by my thread. I appreciate hearing from so many different people who are going through the same sitch's as me.
Unfortunately it sounds as though i have made alot of the same mistakes as your H. Everyone seems to say the same things, "if only i had known" but it is too late for that.
Could i ask you what canged your mind and how long after did you two start patching things together? If i am reading your post correctly anyway.
Me: 41 W: 36 M:9 yrs Together: 12 yrs Kids S7 S4 BD: 01/13 W filed 5/13 D final 8/13