Lovethehub,

Thanks for stopping by my thread. I appreciate hearing from so many different people who are going through the same sitch's as me.

Unfortunately it sounds as though i have made alot of the same mistakes as your H. Everyone seems to say the same things, "if only i had known" but it is too late for that.

Could i ask you what canged your mind and how long after did you two start patching things together? If i am reading your post correctly anyway.


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13