Hang in there Left Coast,

My divorce will be final in July. I keep thinking that my days will get better and some have, but i know i will have worse days until then and after that. I have kept telling myself that when BD that was the bottom for me. It wasnt, but you have to pick yourself up and keep moving forward.

I dont know what to tell you about having your lawyer drop her a note, hopefully a vet will weigh in here to offer you advice.

I know it seems like everyone is ignoring your posts, i am going though that myself, but someone will come through with some good advice.

If not, i will always be around reading and keeping up on your sitch.

Good Luck


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13