Riding the storm out, or at least trying to!

[Raine]

T, I see the same thing rH mentioned about her H being pulled into things he may not want to do. My H has said he feels pulled in so many directions and that everyone wants his time. Everyone keeps making plans for him and he doesn't want to do any of it. He listed names or groups of people and paused as if there were more he wasn't going to mention. I know ow must be demanding of his time and that may be a big reason he keeps dropping them and then reaquiring.

I've thought that often when you mention your H coming to you for repeated permission to do something. It's like he wants you to say no. Kind of like as kids when someone you didn't really like hanging out with invited you to hang out and you had to ask your parents permission, hoping they'd say no.

Keep up that positive vibe! You are simply amazing!!