rH, our company meeting is in two weeks for two days - so it will be before their little trip. I'm sure OW will be clingy and jealous. I really feel much stronger than back in August when I had to see them together. I'm gonna sit back, and let her cling and claw at him.
I often wonder as I see changes in him, if she notices them as well, and if they make her nervous and unsettled. It's just a feeling I get. I would imagine as she feels this, she is going to continually pressure him to reassure her of their R and his feelings for her. Mind reading to a point, but also drawing on my knowing her for many years. I think underneath it all, she just can't help herself and will continue to act insecure and needy.
And just as your H is often along for the ride with his drinking buddies, I think OW is the boss and calls the shots with H. I think she has been controlling him and their R for a long time. That's on him whether or not he gets tired of being bossed around.
UW, I love when you get your digs in on OW, then pull out a "my bad!" Lol! It makes me laugh every single time.
I know you understand the A dynamics, having been there yourself. Totally mind boggling stuff at times...
What's the saying... Desperate times call for desperate measures? I think OW has reached desperate times.
This thought does help me through, still feeling hurt though. My H did nothing for our ten year anniversary last year, I'm sure will do nothing for my 40th (yikes!) birthday at the end of summer, couldn't even buy me a damn card from our children for Mother's Day, but he'll go on a beach vacation with ho bag and lavish her undeserving fat a$$ with gifts.
Not sure how he could ever possibly make up for all of this.
I know, I know, I hear you now... Don't get ahead of yourself It's hard though when you feel like you are being treated so terribly and with such little consideration and absolutely no respect. While this may one day be forgiven, it will never be forgotten.
I did read your post about why he thinks he's missing out - thank you. I know he is dealing with his mortality. It's soooo frustrating though that while he is running, he is missing out on his family - and me.
He has actually said from time to time that he is "trying to figure things out" - I know he is trying in his own way. I do believe this trip has to happen. Will it be a turning point?
And you are right - I'm trying to outlast twinkle twat ho!!!
I don't think my story with him is over either - not by a long shot
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
It's hard though when you feel like you are being treated so terribly and with such little consideration and absolutely no respect. While this may one day be forgiven, it will never be forgotten.
