Are we a bit defensive today? You seem to be taking this pretty personally. I am not trying to fit "you" into anything and I'll bet your hubby isn't either. I don't see "you" as anything, just someone trying to solve a problem.
I am merely trying to help you see beyond your flawed comparison. Your comparison being a poor one has nothing to do with me or you personally. It is just a poor comparison. You not understanding WHY it is a poor comparison has little bearing on the validity of the comparison itself.
The fact is, that you DON'T understand why this is a poor comparison. Maybe by looking into why you think this comparison is a good one, you might discover something you did not know about your views about sexuality. You might have another avenue to explore for helping you and your husband resolve your differences. No one is saying you have to understand it. It just might be worth looking into.
