round and around we go

[willbwell]

My Gals are easy, I'm taking classes(for med. assisting cert.) I do yoga at least 3x's a week. I have great friends that I get together with and laugh often. I volunteer and involved with kids schools. I enjoy that! Really I do the right things... See an IC,I pray, I'm healthy, I look good, I stay busy...
My 180's are trying not to answer H smart aleck, trying to listen, not initiating conversations.
I've set no boundaries with until recently. H can see the kids whenever. After he said he saw the attorney, I asked him to give us some space to process( I said leave us alone for a bit, wish I would have used the kinder version ie-space.)
My goal is to H to communicate openly and honestly with me. I have asked him not to lie at this point. Maybe he thinks he's sparing my feelings. My goal has always been to provide a peaceful environment in our home when he is here with kids. I give him time with the kids...

I need to look how to link to my older posts. I know I messed up in the beginning starting too many threads...My other title was "confused", and before that "My H has left me and handicapped D." I am off to a C session, so I will check back on how to get the the others linked up later.
Thanks Tallula for your imput!