Thank you all for your replies. I am truly grateful to have the support. I took the day off (I've never called in sick before, but knew I had to) to work on finding a new attorney and I will open a case with the DA's office. They will uncover every bank account, investment, etc. I will also take them the loan documents that I received when H tried to buy a house which stated a very large amount of money that was going to be used.
I hate that it has come to this, but I also know that it isn't my fault. I tried for months to be kind and accommodating and stated repeatedly that I just wanted to finalize a settlement that was fair to both of us. H is totally incapable of doing what's right. He's too caught up in his own spew.
I know I don't want to feel hopeless anymore, so today I have to start on a different path. I can do this. It would be so much harder without all of the support that I've received here. Thank you!
