W texted me saying so there won't be any confusion she won't be at the house for dinner the next two days and the following two days she will have dinner w our s. Guess she got my response to divorce papers that stated we were not legally separated because of one of many, we still ate dinner together the three of us. She won't even look at me when she is home. Thought she would be irate. Me, I'm not communicating w her either, detaching. Waiting for her to cool off before I initiate our talk. I told her before she got response we need to talk and work it out, meaning the separation \ divorce papers. I am also going to tell her that I know about OM.
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2
Hey Kenva, just stopping by. Why initiate the talk? IMO it's best your L's handle the agreement or atleast have the L's present? Seem like the scenario would bring unnecessary arguments.
Let her do the work, let her initiate all the talks but you would have a plan when the time comes. Otherwise don't push the D faster.
Just some thoughts kenva. Keep us posted.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
Yesterday I filled out a school form for our s end of school awards. It wanted parents names, phone numbers, emails and how many to attend. I left the amount blank. I wrote my name, number, email and left some space for her. I left it in the counter and she wrote 3 to attend but left only my info on there. She still won't even acknowledge me that I even exist when she is home. I'm good w that. I have an awesome weekend planned w s.
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2
S and I had a great weekend. W was out of town. My w sister invited us by for cook out which we went and she wanted to take s to play put put and the three of us did. W still not even acknowledging me still, really cold. Oh we'll. I got a phone call from my attorneys office saying her lawyer called him and he wants to talk to me. Said could do it on the phone but would rather me come in tomorrow. He said its not urgent. ???
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2
For some reason I have this sick feeling in my stomach this afternoon.I just think she is w other m tonight. W won't be at the house,as she calls it till after s goes to bed. I can't believe I have kept it together this long w out confronting her I know about him. Trying to calm myself down but u also have an appointment w attorney tomorrow and am not doing so well. Two years now and I don't know how much more I can take till I become evil to her.
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2
Two years now and I don't know how much more I can take till I become evil to her.
Your better than that, I know it
You do need to look after yourself.
Maybe try writing down what all your feeling, get it out, post it here if you fell that will help.
Keep posting!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Thanks. She came home while reading in bed to s. She walked in room and of course said nothing to me or look at me,but I had a smile on my face. There,take that. I keep telling myself that she is a fool for wanting to leave me and she will never find anyone to be in her life like me. The best thing about tonight was spending time w my s.
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2
