uR, You are an inspiration and a blessing to those here on the forum. You've given them hope and encouragement to get through each day and yes, they will come to understand that they can get through this ordeal and come out the other side whole and survive all of it.
uR, how are you and your son doing these days? I know you've had some ups and downs recently, but I do worry about you.
I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy reading your postings.
BTW, have you thought of a new thread title? It's time to start a new one...your thread filled up very quickly...no surprise there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
