Your right Papa4life, that is such a great point by nolongersure!!
I now know that H is not going with me to the Cook Islands. He called Monday night to tell me. And you know what, I'm ok with that!!... I really feel as though I'm moving forward now, I'm much more like my normal self!! And I am feeling happier about my life... I now know that no matter happens, I'm going to be fine.
I just said to H to let me know if you change your mind??
I'm in the process of having an agreement drawn up about the sale of our house, just to cover myself, no matter how much H reassured me he's going to give me half...
A dear friend of mine who has used the DB site before has said to me that I now need to go "Pitch Black" and have no contact at all, non... not to even leave it for a few days before I answer any texts or calls. Nothing....
I'm not sure if that's going to work with H, it worked for her and her H but my H is completely different to hers..
Need a little advice from others!!!... I was just going to continue with being "dark".... Me not initiating contact with him ect... Can any one else help me out, let me know what they have done , and did it work or help??
M:47 H:46 T:8.5yrs SD:19 May/2012 ?? H having EA Dec/2010 H distant Jan/10/2013 Confirms PA with OW for 1 month March/24/2013 OW still in the pic M:Moved out May 4th
