GM, I'm sorry to hear what your attorney has done. She is suppose to be representing you, not your h. She shouldn't be charging you for reading your h's missives to her, in fact, she should return them to him and advise him that she is your counsel, not his. I don't understand what is wrong w/her, but what she's done is wrong.
I would make in appointment with whomever to get funds set up for child support asap and then go from there. I would also request that the funds be garnished from his wages and a direct deposit be set up for said funds. That way you aren't jerked around each month.
It takes time to get to the other side. You are going to have to develop a very think skin quite quickly in order to protect you and you children. Divorce and trying to get what you need to survive is not easy, especially when dealing w/mlcers. You have to leave all of your feelings/emotions for this man at the door and put on your business hat. Fight for what you want and do not allow any lawyer to tell you otherwise w/o proof of what they are saying.
We are here for you any day, any time.
BTW, once you feel a bit better, you'll need to think about starting a new thread.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
