It is so hard to feel like you're giving 100% when a goo part of this process is containing your feelings and desire to R. We're all wanting that "Ahaaaa" moment when the light switch goes off for the Mrs, but you can't wait/hope for I or you drive yourself nuts.

The Mrs was on her trip back from a work conference (first away from the kids) and as anticipated she was a total wreck. Me and the Kidos don't get back from vacation until Friday so I suspect she'll even be more of a wreck by then. Surprisingly, she told me she had a hard time there experiencing new things without me. Conference was in San Francisco which we visited together a few years back. I don't think the tide is turning, but that was good to hear.


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17