I just did what worked and stopped what didn't. Plus a TON of patience.
Wow cool... Glad DB worked for you! You make it sound so easy. Thanks again!
Originally Posted By: Strongerthanthis
Newman You have to decide what works in YOUR situation as Michelle says what works for one couple may backfire for another. Gucci, Robx et al, as I said before have in my opinion invaluable advice, LBS's have been dealt a massive confidence blow and re evaluating ones own role in the marriage breakdown and working on that and gaining confidence makes you attractive again.
I'm going to agree and disagree with Mr Bond! Do what works, begging pleading, being needy as we know doesn't work. Calm confident is attractive and from my understanding that was Gucci.s and Robx's core message was all about inner confidence in your own self worth.
Good luck Mr Newman 7977
Stronger thanks for your thoughts. Yes been trying to find what works, its just been tough to find it. And I thought maybe by blending the approaches (including robx and guccis) that's been offered here including in the boards maybe I will find what works. I do filter what I get from here and whatever I think fits my sitch I apply. I think that's what ultimately what DBing is all about isn't it. Keep me in check thanks for stopping by.
Later, Newman
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
