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Met a group of college friends after work for dinner & a surprise baby shower for one of them. This baby #3 for her & wasn't expecting it all. It was nice to see her so happy.

I debated on going tonight. I think because of the baby shower aspect & me being pregnant & no one knowing or knowing about my sitch. I'm glad I did though. I was 8 awesome women who are great friends. It reminded me how amazing I am & that I have a supprt system waiting on me for whenever I'm ready. It was a great GAL for me.


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Originally Posted By: in_it
I was 8 awesome women who are great friends. It reminded me how amazing I am & that I have a supprt system waiting on me for whenever I'm ready.


This is so great!!!


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W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
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Hey girl. Thanks for the love on my post. I'm catching up on you. I'm not really in an advice state of mind right now but I'm really proud that you went to the shower. Good for you!!!! Keep reaching out the the friends around you. Choose wisely when you are ready to open up to someone. You are the best!


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T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
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Hey RT, no problem. Thanks for the love & keeping up. I don't always have advice either, but it's nice to know you're being thought of & cared about. You're the best as well.


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How goes it? Happy Hump Day! smile


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Hi, momma. Just stopping by to say I've been thinking about you!!


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
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Thanks RT & T! I'm doing ok. Thank you for checking in. You're thoughts & support help.

I'm very much looking forward to the weekend. I'm going to sleep until 7AM on Saturday & I can't wait!


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Today is my 10 year anniversary. Sad day. H is has been out if town since Monday. He called Tuesday to tell me he wasn't coming home until Saturday. Haven't heard from him since.


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((((((((((((InIt))))))))))))) I know you feel very lonely. My 9th wedding anniversary was back in April and my W didn't come home for that or see me either. No other way to get through than to just get through it.

What do you have planned for today? It is Friday!!! Are your D's already out of school for the year? Have mommy/daughters day! Put a smile on their face and watch one grown on yours!!!

You should have stopped by my thread last night... Wonka had us doing The Electric Slide! lol!!! Yeah... now that song is just as stuck in your head as it is in mine!!! Chin up buttercup!


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Thank you for your kind words Reality.

My company only works half days on Friday's. So, I'm going to mow the lawn when I get off. May take the girls swimming this evening.

To be honest, right now I'm just trying to stop crying. I've been crying for a good 3 hours now off & on. It comes in waves. Also doing all I can to not contact H. I just want to go off on him & let him know how big of a pos he is. He can't even call his daughters at night. There is so much I want to say to him. A part of me wants him to come home tomorrow & tell me he's leaving. I want him to pack his bags & just go away. I'm also fighting sending that letter to OW right now. I would love to text her.


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