UrW, I have never posted to you before but have been lurking out there just reading all of the wisdom all of you that have been through this have to offer.
Everyone has baggage, things you think others don't want to take on, but then there are those qualities that outshine those minor things. For you and others to take time to help the rest of us out there makes me think were not the only one that sees that.
I told that to my daughter who did not really have a boyfriend until recently. I told her that she is a great person and has so much to offer someone that when she least expects it someone was going to come into her life. We had a big crying session and probably 9 months later she met someone great and has been dating him almost a year. So I'm looking either smart or psychic!
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uR, You are an inspiration and a blessing to those here on the forum. You've given them hope and encouragement to get through each day and yes, they will come to understand that they can get through this ordeal and come out the other side whole and survive all of it.
uR, how are you and your son doing these days? I know you've had some ups and downs recently, but I do worry about you.
I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy reading your postings.
BTW, have you thought of a new thread title? It's time to start a new one...your thread filled up very quickly...no surprise there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
