WFM, I can tell you that my situation drastically improved when i stopped mindreading and stopped reacting to every little thing that W says or does. Do I have little things pop up here or there? Of course i do. But you keep the course. Once I finally realized l, not just said it, but actually realized that this is about me and that she has her own journey then I was able to just be myself and stop walking eggshells. Y'all work together so it's really tough, but you have to keep it light and just be yourself. I look back now I realize that I wasn't giving my W nearly the space I thought I was until I actually started doing it. A month ago I would be posting on here about every time we talked or texted or what not. Now we literally text all day long just about. When we see each other we talk like crazy and I don't have to avoid her. I'm ok with what she decides to do in her life because i know I will be ok. Focus on you!!!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
