Riding the storm out, or at least trying to!

[reachingHigher]

Hi Tvs,

I read your weekend update earlier this afternoon and was thinking about it for a while. Of course, you know I love whenever he connects with you and the family! But coming in so late Friday -- crazy! Hurtful, too!

I wanted to share -- don't know if it'll help -- what my H said when the MC asked how he makes plans with the buddies but not with me. He said, I don't do anything. They make the plans, and since he is already drinking, he says "I'm in!"

So I was thinking about your sitch with this nasty OW. It seems like your H is drawn to many aspects of the home life, but she is putting this pressure on him. It seems your best course (I know its already been said, but...) is to keep on being your awesome self and letting him see the difference.

You know if you put too much pressure on a balloon it'll...POP!!

So...this vacation will be A LOT of pressure. Does the company conference (where you look like a knockout--and she looks frumpy) come before or after planned vacation?