Good to hear. And very nice to hear you're there for the kids. It's sad how these things go, especially for the kids. At some point she may try to re-enter their lives. Watch for it and try to be supportive even if she isn't the kind of mother you think she should be. For people like this, it's almost like they had an emotional stroke and can't remember how to be a mother/father. They forget the nasty things they did and said at some point (the mind has a way to heal) and they learn to adapt. They'll say all kinds of things, but that's really what it boils down to.
Until she's ready to change, she won't. But if she gets there, it's in your SS and D's best interest to help them have that relationship. They'll need you.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."