So my H comes over to see the kids one night a week and then he comes over and picks them up Sunday. I really don't feel like making small talk with him anymore.
(I made a choice in April not to play "happy family" and I don't know where to go next. Up until that point we would go out to eat as a family, sometimes spend weekend days together and spend holidays together.When H would come over to see the kids, we would have conversations about work,world events,etc.At Easter, we spent the day together as a "family." I approached H about being intimate and he said I made him uncomfortable and just wanted to leave. I thought in my head "the go," but didn't say it.He said "this is nice how it is.Let's just leave it at that."That's when I decided to myself (but not say it out loud to him) to stop playing like everything was normal and we were a family in almost all aspects except that he doesn't live with us and there is no physical contact between H and I.
I feel like I don't know where to go at this point.Does anyone have any advice for me?
