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She would rather I take care of things (getting her ready in morning, hair, shower, bowel routine, getting ready for bed, etc) but I want him to do it.


Why do you want him to do it? Just so he will know how hard you work? I don't blame a young women for not wanting her father to do those intimate things.

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In fact, while eating lunch outside restaurant patio we watched a couple making out by the woman's car door. Obvisously an affair.


How could you tell by looking? I've made out with my H (when we were married) and with boyfriends (when I wasn't married). Be careful what you ASSume or project.

Help your daughter, avoid your ex (although it's ok to let him catch a glimpse of you dressed up and heading out for the evening).