Too often I miss the positives as I obsess on the negatives or wait for the other shoe to drop. In business management that skill set has served me well, in my marriage not so much. Certainly now, at a time of challenge/crisis, it is not what I should be doing. I will try to keep in mind "The TVS approach" starting tonight!
My skill set also works/ed very, very well for my career, but like you, not so much in the M department (maybe it would have worked if I had married another engineer (and THAT would have been scary as all heck!), but I didn't...lol). That is one of the many take-aways from our LBS journey...please keep that with you no matter where your sitch ends up!
Yes, TVS is quite the amazing woman....I have learned a lot from her T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
