Don't ask him anything, yet. Really take some time to think about what is bothering you. What you need peace on. Never have discussings when emotional. Just journal. Do you have an expectation from asking him? A hope of a certain answer? Do you want him gone?
What are the 180s you have implemented. What are your GAL activities?
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
