Newman You have to decide what works in YOUR situation as Michelle says what works for one couple may backfire for another. Gucci, Robx et al, as I said before have in my opinion invaluable advice, LBS's have been dealt a massive confidence blow and re evaluating ones own role in the marriage breakdown and working on that and gaining confidence makes you attractive again.
I'm going to agree and disagree with Mr Bond! Do what works, begging pleading, being needy as we know doesn't work. Calm confident is attractive and from my understanding that was Gucci.s and Robx's core message was all about inner confidence in your own self worth.
