I know that LD women put sex way down their list of things to do. I understand that you find other things more exciting, like your job and projects. My wife is the same way, she packs a lot into her days. I would guess that my wife would place intimacy with me as about 10th of things to do everyday, and unfortunately she only gets down to about #5 on the list most days. It bothers us HD guys though, we feel UNDESIREABLE when our LD wives value OTHER things so much more then US. Heck, I am jealous of my own children now, since they get the attention, I don't. I don't put anything ahead of my wife on a regular basis, but she ALWAYS puts other things ahead of me in importance.
Your husband does not have passion for sex, he has passion for YOU. If it was just about sex, then he could get it from any hooker. But that is not fulfilling. He wants sex with a hot passionate CORRI, someone who WANTS to be with him. He wants to know that he is the center of your universe like you hopefully are the center of his. It is his way of communicating, since many men are not so good with the verbal skills. It's his way of being EMOTIONAL, many guys resort to sex to convey emotions that they can not express. It's his RELEASE valve and security blanket all rolled into one. It's how he maintins his emotional health. We HD guys are not so sophisticated, we are not verbally skilled, we have trouble with expressing emotions, we have trouble in MOST all relationship skills, and that is one reason that sex plays such a big role in our lives, it keeps connected to our wives in ways that we can NEVER achieve outside the bedroom. If we are not successful in our sexual relationship with our wives, we feel like failures in ALL aspects of our lives. We are not like women that have many options for happiness, we are so limited to what can actually make us happy, we truly are simple creatures.
